The Poison Pill to Every Relationship

Defensiveness kills collaboration. When we get defensive, our IQ drops, our thinking becomes rigid, and we spend more energy on self-preservation than problem-solving. This module gives you the tools to recognize and manage your own defensiveness—and deal effectively with defensive people around you.

What's Included

This comprehensive 29-page workbook provides:

Red/Pink/Green Zone framework for understanding defensive attitudes
The Conflict Lifeline exercise to map your defensive patterns
50 signs of defensiveness checklist
Biological explanation of why we get defensive (and why it's so hard to think clearly when triggered)
Step-by-step process for managing defensiveness when it shows up
Practical strategies for dealing with defensive people (both aggressive and avoidant)
Listening skills that create psychological safety
Action plan template for your unique defensive triggers
Guided reflection exercises

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